Доверие

 

Википедия: Доверие в социологии и психологии — открытые, положительные взаимоотношения между людьми, содержащие уверенность в порядочности и доброжелательности другого человека, с которым доверяющий находится в тех или иных отношениях.

Говоря о доверии, понимаешь, что на этом строятся все наши отношения.

Натолкнул меня на эту тему один замечательный момент: лежал я днем рядом со спящим маленьким сыном. Вдруг у него приоткрылись глаза и начали что-то искать. Он увидел меня, улыбнулся, закрыл глаза и продолжил сон.

Так и в жизни – доверяешь человеку, значит, начинаешь с ним отношения. Не имеет значения коммерческие или человеческие.

Наша, сегодняшняя жизнь, стала такой запутанной, что сама суть доверия ушла куда-то вглубь нас. Мы уже давно начали строить отношения на финансовой выгоде. И очень часто, начав строить с кем-то отношения, мы даже не задумываемся о том, доверяем ли мы этому человеку?

Ведь главное – мы заработаем деньги. А что потом?  Когда-нибудь потом, потом …  , мы об этом подумаем.  Теперь, представьте себе вторую сторону в ваших отношения. Человек изначально понимает то, что вы  и не задумались о доверии ему. Значит – можно поступать так, как выгодно ему. Очень часто изначально закладывается обман.

Я очень долго работал в ремонтно-строительном секторе экономики.                                                                                 Так вот могу со 100% уверенность сказать, что понятие доверия обрушено полностью.        Принимая участие в конкурсах и аукционах, ты абсолютно точно знаешь, что за те деньги, которые заложены в конкурсной документации выполнит указанные работы из указанных материалов невозможно. Так ведь это еще до начала торгов!!! А после торгов, когда выиграл, ты прекрасно понимаешь, что из оставшейся суммы можно выполнить только полную халтуру. Так ведь надо еще и Заказчика не обидеть. Зато, если Заказчик доволен подарком, вот тогда можно спокойно гнать халтуру которая будет спокойно принята.

Есть, конечно, и другой вариант отношений, но это в случае если Заказчик и «выигравший» из одной команды. В этом случае совершенно другой сценарий: стартовая планка заявки на аукцион (конкурс) завышена. Хорошо завышена. Но (!!!) это абсолютно не влияет на качество выполняемых работ! Просто, в этом случае, в сумме сделки заложена маржа участников сделки.

Несколько лет я выполнял подряды для больницы, естественно очень плотно общался с руководящим звеном. Так вот, по словам заместителя по АХО, в ее отрасли с заказами происходит все точно также. Только это намного страшнее – также получается с продуктами и медикаментами, оборудованием. Нас в стационаре ужасно кормят и советуют покупать свои лекарства. Да и сдавать анализы и делать снимки лучше в частных компаниях – так надежнее.

То же в детских садах и школах.

В других министерствах и ведомствах происходит все то же самое.

Самое грустное в этом то, что от этого страдаем мы все. Те, кто живет на земле, у нас в России. О каком доверии можно говорить.

Хотя, причем здесь мы, простые люди, которые пользуемся результатами всего этого? Да и работники, которые выполняют эти работы. Ведь они делают то, что указали начальники.

Конечно, можно отказаться делать халтуру, выдавать не качественный товар. Но тогда ты окажешься на улице. А семья, дети?

Замкнутый круг?

Не совсем.

Мы сами можем многое сделать.

Как? Да очень просто.

Мы должны качественно выполнять свою работу: качественно выполнять работу даже из низкосортных материалов; качественно отбирать подлежащий отпуску товар. Ведь это не сложно!?

В этом случае снова появляется доверие, но уже к вам лично. Ну и к результатам  вашего труда.

Ну, а то, что мы видим «наверху»? Это пускай останется на их совести. Каждому воздастся свое. Не всегда в этой жизни. Часто от этого будут страдать их  дети, в следующих поколениях. Даже не зная, почему такое с ними происходит.

Главное нам, в сегодняшней ситуации, вернуть доверие к друг другу. Только в этом случае мы сами начнем перелом ситуации в своей стране. Мы сможем честно смотреть в глаза окружающим.

Не зря корнем слова ДОВЕРИЕ является слово ВЕРА.

Мы сами строим мир вокруг себя.

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