Жизнь после развода

Жизнь после развода.Делюсь ощущениями мужчины долго прожившего в браке.

Вы знаете?  Жизнь после развода не прекращается.

Но каждый период жизни дает разные ощущения.                                               Хотя. Вначале,  есть чувство, что что-то оторвалось, свое, родное.                                                                                                                                                                                       Моя личная градация ощущений, скорее даже внутреннего состояния сразу после развода. Причем, я сужу по себе. Это состояние появляется после записи в паспорте. А если это гражданский брак, то после слов, сказанных в лицо: Я ухожу, прощай.

  • Где-то до 35 лет

Состояние полной свободы и независимости. Сразу вспоминаешь себя в 16,17,18. Весь мир перед тобой. Нет никаких уже взятых обязательств (остаются обязательства перед своими детьми). С В О Б О Б А !!! Сейчас ты пойдешь вперед по жизни и у тебя все, конечно же, получится. Ты будешь встречаться с женщинами и тебе не надо ничего и ни кому объяснять, оправдываться. Ты сам определишь место всем своим женщинам. Теперь ты точно знаешь – как им указать на их место в ваших отношениях. Ты НЕЗАВИСИМЫЙ человек!                                                                                                           Проходит несколько недель и появляется какой-то, вначале неуловимый, дискомфорт. Надо где-то поесть, надо постирать и погладить одежду. Надо, в конце концов, убраться в своем жилище.                                                                   Ты начинаешь понимать, что в браке есть и много плюсов: даже просто, ни о чем не думая, поваляться на диване перед телевизором. А потом тебя позовут к столу. И вечером, когда все заснут, остаться наедине с женой и …. И не надо никого и ничего искать, все под боком.                                                                                                                                                    А может снова попробовать найти женщину своей мечты?

  • 45-50 лет

Наверное, ощущение раскрепощения. Спали цепи, даже может быть кандалы. Ты свободный, как когда-то в молодости. Никаких отчетов и обязательств. Наконец-то никто не мелькает перед глазами и не просит что-то сделать. П О К О Й!!! Сейчас ты сядешь и спокойно обдумаешь свою свободную жизнь. Наконец-то сделаешь то, о чем мечтал всю жизнь. К черту все свои болячки! Сейчас я начну заниматься спортом, подправлю фигуру. Я всем докажу какой я!                                                                                                 Да, ты начинаешь делать зарядку. Приступаешь к исполнению своих давних мечтаний.   Проходит несколько дней, недель. Появляется состояние неудовлетворенности, где-то глубоко внутри. Уже не хочется делать зарядку, не хочется исполнять свои мечты.       Начинает все чаще появляться мысль – а для чего все это я делаю? Потом ты понимаешь, что лукавишь перед собой. Ты неправильно поставил вопрос. Правильно будет – для кого?    И теперь ты понимаешь, что ты привык жить в семье. Что ты привык, что перед тобой кто-то всегда мелькает. Ты привык, что всегда нужна твоя помощь. ТЫ НУЖЕН.

Ты снова остановился и задумался.

Ты совсем не старый мужик. У тебя еще куча сил и желаний. Надо их кому-то предложить.

И вот, у тебя снова горят глаза. Теперь ты понимаешь, что надо начинать новую жизнь!

Надо искать женщину!

  • 55 и старше

Ощущение дискомфорта. Пропало все, к чему привык. Даже где-то растерянность. А  кто за мной будет ухаживать?                                                                                                                                                                                                                              В этот момент главное не растеряться и не наделать глупостей.

Не надо, чисто по русскому обычаю – сразу бежать в магазин за бутылкой. Хотя, можно и отметить это событие. Один раз.                                                     Лучше спокойно заварить чай, сесть и спокойно обдумать создавшееся положение. Ведь, в конце концов, к этой развязке ты давно шел. Ты был внутри к ней готов.                                                                                                                      То есть твоя душа и сердце об этом знали уже давно. Поэтому здесь нет катастрофы.                                                                                                                                     Не надо пить сердечные и впадать в меланхолию. А то еще сердце разболится. Ведь ухаживать больше некому.

Выход, я считаю, один.

Живи, не суетясь,  и ищи женщину, с которой тебе будет интересно общаться. Не обязательно ровесницу. Можно и на 5-10-15 лет моложе.          И все получится. Ведь женщин у нас больше.                                                                                                                                                   Да, и хорошие мужики не часто встречаются!

Мы сами кузнецы своего счастья.

Мы сами строим мир вокруг себя.

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